Episode 2

S2 Ep2: Starting a Family

In the second episode of the Key Life Stages season, Simon and Bex discuss various finance related matters that come to the fore when starting a family. As well as covering the significant changes that inevitably occur with the arrival of children, points relating to hybrid families and managing finances jointly are also explored.

Some key points of interest covered in this episode include the following:

  • Simon explains that he will be considering three key elements in this episode: joint finances; children; and hybrid families. [00:52]
  • In response to a question from Bex, Simon talks about the importance to family life of couples discussing financial issues and goals so that they can jointly plan and manage their use of money, even if they each have different roles within that process. Simon’s comments on this topic include a quotation from Gary Chapman’s book, Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married [01:52]
  • Simon describes some of the financial consequences that have been identified in connection with having children. [05:51]
  • Mention is made of some options that are available for saving or investing on behalf of a child. [08:11]
  • Various family related financial planning priorities are identified, including the importance of wills, insurance, Power of Attorney arrangements and discussing money matters with your children. [12:12]
  • Communication is also a key factor as far as hybrid families are concerned, and it is suggested that, within that context, a trusted friend or relative can sometimes provide helpful input. Financial issues that can arise in connection with elderly parents are also mentioned. [14:20]
  • When making some concluding remarks, Simon highlights how complicated and challenging it can be to try to apply the principle of fairness to money matters affecting our children. [17:45]
  • The next episode in the Key Life Stages season will be ‘Your First Job’ while the next episode to be published (in a week's time) will be ‘Your Longest Holiday, on the subject of Pensions, in the Practical Financial Planning season. [20:19]

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About the Podcast

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Where Your Treasure Is...
Conversations about faith and finance with Chartered Financial Planner of the Year, Simon Glazier

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Simon Glazier

Simon is a forty(something), average height, mostly bald, Christian, husband, father of three, bad taste in fashion, movie-loving, not-very-musical-but-likes-to-sing, outdoor type, board-game playing, dancing, acting (would love to get back into amateur dramatics), kind of guy.

He also happens to be a very experienced, qualified and award-winning Financial Planner (and not just any award - the UK Chartered Financial Planner of the Year Award!).

After 20+ years in the finance profession and having worked for one of Aberdeen and the UK’s best financial planning firms (they also won awards...) he started Stewardship Wealth on the 1st April 2018. His goal is to build a business that would delight clients, gather a team of fun to work with people, and raise money for charity, in particular the Church he is a part of. He has committed to giving away at least 10% of all the income of the business to charity, even before he pays himself!

He's been part of a growing Aberdeenshire church for 25+ years, during which time he as acted, sung, played the tambourine (sad, but true), served in and helped lead the children's ministry, helped run several Marriage Courses, Parenting Courses and Money Courses, been a Treasurer and Trustee for over 13 years and has helped lead a small group based bible study for as long as he can remember.

If you’re ever up for a deep and meaningful conversation about faith and finance...or a strategy based board game...then he’s your man.

P.S. He also has a collection of over 60 Monopoly Board Games, owns a Bowler Hat and once represented England in the World Folkdance Festival as a Morris Dancer...!
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Bex Elder

Bex Elder is a freelance translator and writer based in the North East of Scotland. While Bex is by no means a financial expert (unlike her more knowledgeable co-host), her love of a good chat, and sometimes debate, led her into podcasting. Bex splits her working hours between her own business and working a day a week for her local church as the Assistant Youth Pastor. Bex loves running, getting lost in a good book, drinking copious amounts of tea and never says no to a macaron.